Creating your own “desire line” Desire Line - a path created by "a yearning to go our own way, to forge through the brush of life, to make a new path, to ignore the concrete in lieu of the feel of our foot on real earth. . . " --John LaPlante, Urban Planner “Sometimes, following unknown paths, we find ourselves in a maze of growth, in failing light, unsure where we are, flailing through jungles of stiff, impenetrable shrubs and sharp briars in deceptively benign-looking woods. All at once we realize we are lost, unable to retrace our steps. Then, suddenly, we come out onto a paved highway, far from where we thought we were, feeling a gratefulness and a relief we are ashamed to acknowledge. But sometimes, just sometimes, we come upon a new and unexpected clearing, a magical place unanticipated in our daily thoughts or even our dreams; and when we do, we are so amazed that we cease even to wonder whether we will be able to find our way back home, or, perchance, whether this might in fact be our new home.” -- Robert Finch Are you traveling the path someone else created for you or are you forming your own desire line toward those things you love and want to do? Think of your life as paths created by your family, teachers, friends, church; a way created for you to follow to their desired location. Then draw a visual of those paths you were and are expected to travel. Did you create desire lines that lead to something different than that expected by your life planners? In your mind, what path is laid out for you now? Is there an inclination to create a new path? Start creating that desire line now and begin your journey toward your chosen destination. “Do not go where the path may lead, go instead where there is no path and leave a trail.” --Ralph Waldo Emerson copyright © 2008 Gail Brokaw and Embrace The Possibility Life Coaching |
